Monday, October 27, 2008

School and Girls

A friend of mine is having serious girl problems right now.  He doesn't know what to do and its complicated, as all relationships are.  But here's what I think.  If a girl is causing you to flunk all of your classes, drop out of school, and not get a degree, then something is wrong.  And the thing that is wrong is the relationship with her.  Unfortunately, my friend will not listen to anyone that is giving him any kind of advice.  I hate to see him argue for hours each day with this girl and then to not come to class and ruin his life.  But he just can't let her go.  He tells her that he doesn't love her, but she ignores what he says.  He has to change all of his passwords online because she hacked his email and reads all of his messages on the web.  He ignores her calls when he's in class with me, but then she just freaks out more and calls him incessantly until he answers.
Its clear to me, but why can't he just get rid of her and get back to what he should be doing?

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